A father figure is an "an older man who you treat like a father,especially by asking for his advice, help, or support."- Cambridge Dictionary. A boy without a father is quite bad but a boy with a father who isn't there is devastating. Though I did not have a relationship with my father and I am a lot older I wish we would still establish that relationship but if it doesn't happen, I assure you that it would be different for Aaron Jr. Love You.